Typically, bequests to churches do not engender much controversy because the bequest is usually modest in comparison to the estate or the estate has no other beneficiaries. Nevertheless, many churches ask their members to leave a bequest but do not find out until after death whether the bequest has been documented in an enforceable manner.
In Birchman Baptist Church v Elliot, Slip Op. (Tex. Civ. App. 2018), the deceased was required by his divorce decree to keep his life insurance policy in force and to nominate his children as the beneficiaries. The divorce decree did not require the beneficiary designation to remain inviolate after the children became adults. The deceased complied and after several years the children matured into adults. Inexplicably, the deceased used the fax machine at the church to submit an amended beneficiary designation which eliminated his children as beneficiaries and nominated the church. Shortly thereafter, the deceased sent a suicide note to the church pastor and then committed suicide. The appellate court reversed the trial court and held that because the divorce decree did not require that the children remain the beneficiaries beyond reaching majority status, the substitution of the church as beneficiary was enforceable. However, because the children alleged undue influence by the church in causing the deceased to eliminate them as beneficiaries, the case was remanded to the trial court for a decision on that issue.
Such a tragedy does not yield many usable lessons. The church would never condone the suicide, and, indeed, would have tried to prevent it. The children may have been temporarily estranged, or may not have been, but had their father lived there might have been an opportunity to reduce or heal the rift. Thus, the children would not have sought the death. Given what the parties appear to have spent on legal fees and the modest size of the policy, an amicable sharing agreement would have been more cost effective.